Regarding the change to the title: i just saw Fight Club for the first time this week (courtesy of Erin, my dealer of all things cultural and literary) and i'm really into the song that plays at the end, "where is my mind?" by the Pixies. i think the name's appropriate considering the range of mental states i've been in the past year. haha, speaking of the past year...it's been about one year since the breakup. man, i'm slow at moving on, but hey, better late than never, right? i'll enjoy this singleness for a while...selection's pretty low at uci. plus i think i'd like being with someone older, but most of the older guys have just graduated...too bad. i can wait.